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Weep bitterly over the dead, for he is worthy, and then comfort thyself; drive heaviness away: thou shall not do him good, but hurt thyself.
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Diary entry for the day he died (15 April 1888); from Ecclesiasticus, xxxviii.

 

Matthew Arnold

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