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I suppose the process of acceptance will pass through the usual four stages:
(i) this is worthless nonsense;
(ii) this is an interesting, but perverse, point of view;
(iii) this is true, but quite unimportant;
(iv) I always said so.
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Journal of Genetics Vol. 58, page 464 (1963).

 

J. B. S. Haldane

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